The Shift: Finding Balance Between Family, Career, and Creativity

Hey everyone, it’s been a while since my last post. Life has been full—between family, work, and all the little moments in between, I’ve been learning a lot about what balance really means. Lately, I’ve felt a quiet pull to slow down, realign, and make room for my voice again. That feeling inspired this piece I’m calling The Shift.

There’s a moment in every creative’s life when you realize that the version of yourself you’ve been carrying no longer fits. It’s subtle at first—an internal tug, a quiet question that echoes through your routine: Am I living, or am I just maintaining?

For me, that question became louder as I tried to balance motherhood, career, and the part of me that still longed to create—to write, perform, and connect through my words. Somewhere between school drop-offs, work meetings, and endless to-do lists, my creative voice grew faint. I convinced myself that “this is just the season I’m in.” But deep down, I missed me.

That’s when I began to feel the shift.

The shift doesn’t happen all at once. It builds in small ways—a spark of inspiration that interrupts your day, a journal entry that feels more like a release than a task, a reminder that your gifts didn’t leave you, they’ve just been waiting for you to return.

For years, I poured myself into family and work, and while I found fulfillment in both, I started to realize that I had been neglecting the part of me that makes everything else feel aligned—the creator, the storyteller, the woman who finds healing and connection through words.

When I stopped fighting the shift and started leaning into it, I noticed something beautiful. My balance didn’t come from doing less—it came from being present in whatever I was doing. When I write, I’m not thinking about what’s next. When I’m with my family, I’m grounded in those moments. And when I’m working, I bring my whole, creative self into the room.

The shift taught me that balance isn’t about perfection or rigid scheduling—it’s about permission. Permission to pause. Permission to rediscover what lights you up. Permission to redefine what success looks like on your own terms.

I’m still learning, still adjusting, but I know this: every time I honor my creative voice, I feel closer to who I’m meant to be.

If you’re feeling that internal pull too—that quiet knowing that something needs to change—trust it. It’s your shift calling you home.

If this message resonates with you, I’d love to hear your story. How are you navigating your own shift? Share your thoughts in the comments or connect with me on social media—I believe our journeys have more in common than we think.

Naima Yetunde Hammonds

NYI, active in theater for over 10 years. One of the most exciting highlights of her career was working alongside Mr. Melvin Van Peebles on the adaptation of Sweet Sweetback's Baadasssss Song-directed by Melvin Van Peebles. NYI, tripled as a production assistant, stage manager and actress and traveled with the company to Paris, France in the winter of 2010. Ince says, my goal is to reach my community and beyond. Sky's the limit.

Bachelors of Arts in Drama Studies from SUNY Purchase College
Masters of Professional Studies in Arts and Cultural Management from Pratt Institute

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